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BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover we get there from here. Maybe we first have to define where here is. In Israel, just three weeks ago, I was privileged to spend part of a day with Arieh King of

cause the Israeli government does not want to ruffle any international feathers. Mr. Ezra is now 96 years old. He never married and does not have a family. Arieh King and his staff of attorneys worked

WERE GROWING Continued from Front Cover class of ten pioneering local girls. When we first opened the doors to Machon Basya Rochel, we were expecting a handful of new students each year. We would have

FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover Thursday, July 26, however, was a difficult day to indulge in this type mediacontrol denial when perusing the influential editorial pages of both the New Yor

A WEEK OF NO TACHANUN Continued from Front Cover nun, some more valid than others. Some omit Tachanun on the yahrzeit of any famous rabbi, which actually seems counterintuitive. The day of a yahrzeit

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 9 of the United States and most of Europe still labor under the absurd impression that if only Israel would withdraw from Judea, Samaria, and East Jerusalem and del

There is none else beside Him Devarim 435 Rabbi Binyamin Kletzker, a chassid of Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, was a lumber merchant. One year, while he was adding up the annual accounts, he inadverte

FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 12 co by stating that the administration believes that issues like this need to be worked out between Israelis and Palestinians in the finalstatus phase of negotiat

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SEVEN YEARS SINCE GUSH KATIF Continued from Front Cover zan. Caravilla is the nickname given to temporary housing units set up for the Gush Katif expellees. In this case, temporary means numerous year

talk about tikun olam. But for them, tikun olam, saving the world, really means impressing the gentiles with their humanistic values, their progressive values, while, forgive the slang, throwing their

Rejoice In Finishing Shas And Nachamu, Nachamu Ami Halachic Musings BY RABBI YAIR HOFFMAN This week is a double simcha. The Jewish nation is both celebrating the finishing of some 2,700 pages of the T

A Great Lease is in the Details. Shomer Shabbos Any dealer can lease you a car. But when you get down to the fine print, Bay Ridge Auto Leasing stands alone. SELECTION Test drive the car of your dre

Chief Executive Appointed To Yeshivas Mir Yerushalayim As reported in these pages last week, R Adrian Garbacz was recently appointed as Mir Yeshivas chief executive. R Adrian, who grew up in London, w

SEVEN YEARS SINCE GUSH KATIF Continued from Page 17 only answer that I came up with is, for five years we had been under attack. Six thousand missiles had fallen on us and only one person had been kil

Yeshivas Mir Continued from Page 20 ment fund is definitely on the radar. In midMay, R Adrian Garbacz made a presentation to alumni of the yeshiva and baalei batim in London, England. This group has n

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JONAH Continued from Page 23 sexual feelings, behaviors, identity, or any other sexual confusion issue. These include individual and group therapy and coaching, support groups for men and women who ma

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Messages of the Torah Leaders at the Siyum HaShas in Tel Avivs Yad Eliyahu Stadium BY RABBI YOSEF EFRATI The feelings of joy at the Yad Eliyahu stadium were tempered by the conspicuous absence of HaGa

away, the Torahs honor left the world together with him. Why was Rabbi Akiva given this title The Gemara tells us that Rabbi Akiva sought to expound on each section and detail of the Torah, right down

Finishing Shas on French Hill BY RABBI NACHMAN SELTZER Over ten thousand people gathered at the Yerushalayim Siyum HaShas Hamerkazi this Tuesday evening in Yerushalayims French Hill neighborhood. This

caused major disturbances in the nature of the universeand were therefore described as kasheh, difficult. The breaking of the Luchos caused a change Prior to their destruction there was no element of

FLYING HIGH Continued from Page 29 halichos, ela halachos. The Rosh Yeshivah explained that those who learn halachos make them halichos, a part of the daily routine. These people of Dirshu, Rav Ezrach

a lack of respect for Torah and the scourge of lashon hara and sinas chinam. Dirshu Ambassadors The throngs of chutzniks at Binyanei Hauma represent a large swath of Klal Yisrael that is part and par

Accolades From The Secular Press BY RABBI NACHMAN SELTZER Preparations for the chain of Dirshu siyumevents have been going on for months, and theyve been happening on every level. Every detail has bee

Voting, Our Most Potent Weapon BY ASHER E. TAUB, ESQ. The Jewish vote was once considered the most powerful weapon in politics. The consistently high turnout by Jews at the voting booth made securing

MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW Dear Esther, Last weeks column, about a mother concerned about the overthetop sibling rivalry between her two daughters, prompted me to write to you. My situation is simil

other neighborhood was worthy of me and my family. My husband disagrees and frankly, so do I. Some of our friends are buying homes in Teaneck and other neighborhoods that look interesting. My husband

MINDBIZ Continued from Page 35 your younger sister had a stronger and healthier need to individuate from your mother. She paid a price, but my guess is that ultimately it was worth the price of admiss

Cities Of Refuge From The Other Side Of The Bench BY DAVID J. SEIDEMANN, ESQ . I have always been fascinated by the concept in Jewish law of the Arei Miklat, the Cities of Refuge. In ancient Biblical

Letting Go Of The Occupation Tidbits From Israel BY RON JAGER It was just a matter of time before selfappointed prominent Jewish leaders in America got organized to send a letter to Prime Minister Net

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Another Mothers Musings By Phyllis J. Lubin No Free Swim Its Sunday morning. Usually my husband does laps on his bicycle on the boardwalk, while I swim my laps. This routine began last summer, and no

and we would take a trip to Brooklyn, it felt as if we were going on a long trip. Once Lenny and I married and settled there, the trip from the Five Towns area now seemed like a minute. I was able to

THE DISH By Elke Probkevitz Mason Jars The mason jar is in vogue, elevated from its lowly, ordinary use to a multifunctional and stylish container. They are not just for preserving and pickling anymo

BUSINESS WEEKLY Restoring the Primacy of Choshen Mishpat By Rabbi Meir Orlian Monetary Stipulations The Brauns were negotiating the purchase of a house. It was a spacious colonial with a renovated k

MONETARY STIPULATIONS Continued from Page 43 ble to other monetary matters, where the established seller refuses to relinquish his property without fulfillment of the terms Aruch Hashulchan 2074. What

DAF YOMI INSIGHTS By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow Celebrating Tu BAv This erev Shabbos Nachamu is Tu BAv. The Midrash in Eichah lists various reasons for celebrating Tu BAv, the 15th of Av 1. While the Jews

DAF YOMI INSIGHTS Continued from Page 45 were still alive They were still commanded in tzitzis They entered their graves with their tzitzis on, and if they died, the tzitzis were not removed. Neverthe

real estate mortgage financing By Anessa V. Cohen Moving Time Although there are those homeowners who get up one morning and just say, Yup, it is time to sell this house and move on to a new one a m

5TJT Seeks Intern For Mideast Reporting Reporters Notebook BY SAMUEL SOKOL JerusalemThe daily life of a reporter bears little similarity to what you may have seen on television or in the movies. The b

thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman Nothing Like Ingenuity Theres something to be said for central air conditioning. Actually theres a lot to be said for it. It provides a consistent level of

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Question Texting and email have become a primary form of communication in todays society. We rely on it heavily for work, keeping in touch with friends, and even building relationships from scratch. I

express in texting language all that is bubbling in your heart. You can do all that, because it feels safe. You are not talking to a human being. You are not exercising facial muscles, especially eye

DATING FORUM Continued from Page 53 While communication has always taken on many forms, there is one ubiquitous necessity in any relationshipa method of communication that works. Fastforward 30 years.

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The Five Towns 18 Bike4Chai, August 89 BY ROCHELLE MARUCH MILLER Neither rising at dawn nor facing the daunting challenges of threatening hills could deter their commitment and diminish their enthusia

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BIKE4CHAI Continued from Page 57 cause and to participate in the ride. When I first heard about Bike4Chai, I said, This is something I would want to be involved with, said Allan, who had already comme

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Rabbi Avram Pollak, Menahel Rabbi Eli Zoldan, Judaic Studies Principal Rabbi David Abramchik, General Studies Principal Mesivta Yam HaTorah of the Five Towns Far Rockaway Your sons four years of Me

News From The Hills BY CHANITA TEITZ My husband pointed out something interesting last night after the fast. Tishah BAv hasnt fallen out on Shabbos for the last fourteen years, but in the next seven y

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News From The Hills Continued from Page 62 nah. His father said that there would always be a little Moishele to ask the four questions. Enjoy your Shabbos Nachamu and may Klal Yisrael be zocheh this y

Hempstead Increases Security An Interview With Town Supervisor Kate Murray BY RABBI YAIR HOFFMAN As most of our readers know, a terrible tragedy occurred recently in Bulgaria, with the terrorist bombi

Hempstead Security Continued from Page 65 County and New York City. It would just be speculation at this point. I would imagine that not only do they do it at a time of extra stress like these days in

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SUCCOT IN LETTERS TO THE EDITOR Continued from Page 71 these families doubtless are making their own bar mitzvah or wedding celebrations, and many probably do not know how they will pay for even a mi

empty for several years. The Board of Education has finally seen fit to put the school on the market. The School Board should consider the needs of the community in its decision in the sale. Here in t

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Having A Great Time At Orah By Nechama Strauss Welcome to the best time of the year. We love summer, and nowhere is it better than in Orah Day Camp. This time around our theme is

LETTERS TO THE EDITOR Continued from Page 73 Most recently, the president has stated his unequivocal support for a moment of silence for the Israeli athletes and coaches who were brutally murdered at

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 74 kosher bagel store. The community offers a plethora of learning opportunities to all levels through its rabbinic staff headed by Rabbi Dr. Chaim Wakslak an

Become a Facebook fan of 5 Towns Jewish Times. At the Friends of Mercy Medical Center 31st Annual Golf Classic, Dr. Aaron Glatt center and from left Dr. Marc DiSciullo, Dr. Perry Stein, Dr. Gary Herz

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Community News Continued from Page 77 ty on the South Shore of Nassau County. Motherbaby services are at the core of Mercys mission and the funds raised at the Golf Classic help to make it possible fo

Hon. Judge Rivera in the Kings County Supreme Court. This campaign runs across the board, said Ms. Meyer. I intend to advocate for women in violent relationships and ensure that they have a safe place

Community News Continued from Page 81 bills mounting, I needed a second income. The coaching certification program at HIC taught me how to be a more effective executive and a much more communicative h

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